While Trae Holiday is on vacation, we are sharing some of her favorite interviews from 2024 - The Day With Trae returns on Monday, November 11th.

By Trae Holiday 

I recently had the incredible opportunity to sit down with my brother, Romell Witherspoon, the Youth Mentorship Director for the City of Seattle, for an episode of "The Day with Trae." It was a truly special experience for me, as we've known each other for years and have witnessed each other's journeys. Romell's story is one of inspiration, leadership, and a deep commitment to community.

Romell's path to becoming a motivational speaker and mentor wasn't a straight line. He shared how it all began with a simple realization: the importance of listening to unheard voices and overcoming self-doubt. As a natural leader and captain of his sports teams, he discovered his ability to inspire and motivate others. "The moment I did become confident," Romell explained, "I said, 'Oh, wait a minute, this is the key, and now it's my job to make sure no one else runs into that bridge that the eyes can't see.'"

Throughout our conversation, Romell emphasized the transformative power of confidence and its connection to leadership. He believes that confidence isn't just about self-assurance; it's about empowering others to believe in themselves. By openly sharing his own experiences and vulnerabilities, he creates a safe space for individuals to embrace their strengths and overcome their limitations.

Romell challenged conventional notions of success, highlighting the significance of non-monetary gains. He shared a powerful story about being in a room full of billionaires, where he observed that true wealth lies not in material possessions but in the alignment of mind, heart, and spirit. "The real success is not in the job you attain," he said. "It's not in how much money you have in your account." Romell believes that true success is measured by the positive impact one has on others and the legacy they leave behind.

Romell's concept of "the power of a way out" deeply resonated with me. He likened it to securing your own oxygen mask before helping others, emphasizing the importance of self-care and personal development. By finding their own way out of challenges, individuals can become beacons of hope for others. Romell also shared how his personal anchors, like his faith and family, provide him with strength and direction in his work.

As the Youth Mentorship Director for the City of Seattle, Romell is deeply committed to empowering young people. He views mentorship as a multifaceted tool that can be tailored to individual needs and aspirations. "The whole point of mentorship is to give our youth a target that will allow them to hit what it is that they're looking for, dead on the head," he explained. By creating various entry points and providing guidance, he helps young people discover their passions and develop the skills they need to succeed.

Romell's dedication to his hometown of Seattle is evident in his work. He spoke passionately about his desire to give back to the community that nurtured him. "I owe this city," he declared. "It is my job to give back, so it can be the gift that keeps on giving." By investing in local youth and creating opportunities for growth, he's contributing to the city's vibrant future.

Romell highlighted the importance of culturally responsive spaces, like Black Media Matter studios, in fostering a sense of belonging and empowerment. He believes these spaces provide a platform for individuals to showcase their identities and share their stories, ultimately contributing to a more inclusive and equitable society.

In a world that often glorifies constant hustle, Romell shared a valuable lesson about rest and efficiency. He told a story about two lumberjacks, one who consistently sharpened his ax and the other who didn't, to illustrate how taking breaks and investing in self-care can lead to greater productivity and impact. "Don't mistake grinding for not getting sleep, not getting rest," he advised. "You've got to sharpen your ax every single day so you can be more efficient with the work."

I'm so grateful to Romell for sharing his time, insights, and inspiring story with me. His dedication to mentorship and unwavering commitment to empowering young people is truly commendable. Our city is undoubtedly better because he's chosen to bring his brilliance back home.

Remember, as Romell said, "The opportunities don't disappear, they go to other people." So seize the opportunities before you, invest in yourself and your community, and never stop sharpening your ax.